Recently, I received an email concerning what I’ll call “the management of friendship.” The sender’s inquiry went something like this: I have a couple of longtime friends whose company I enjoy. However, they aren’t as attentive to their finances as I am. When we go out for dinner or drinks, they order and spend without … More The Best of Friends
Our globe-trotting correspondent David provided the following article on a well-dressed Spanish aristocrat. As I am in Paris, bolstering the inventory of shoes and shirts, I thought it might be appropriate, and that you all might enjoy. Thank you, David… The best-dressed royal you’ve never heard of – and what he can teach you about … More Aristocratic Style: Fernando Fitz-James Stuart
I am back in Paris for a couple of weeks after a couple of months of ongoing renovations to the south wing. Surprisingly, it is very distracting, time-consuming, and fatiguing to have someone else in your home every day doing work. My initial thought (made in error) was that my wife and I would interview … More Update From The Homefront
We often read about how rewarding and important it is–personally and professionally–to go against the grain, blaze our own individual trail, and stand out from the crowd. Conformity is seen as surrender, the absence of courage, the acceptance of the status quo. Some people think that it signals a lack of independent thought or originality. … More Reconsidering Conformity
I’m delighted to let all of you know that the second video I did with Tom Miler of M Publishing in Poland is now online. (Some of you have already seen the video and congratulated me. Thank you again.) Here’s the link: https://youtu.be/RGjVyxxFHVM Among other things, Tom and I discuss the concept of having a … More Old Money Video #2
A Gentleman in Moscow, by Amor Towles. The novel has subsequently been adapted for the screen, premiering March 29, I believe, on Paramount+/Showtime, and Canal Plus for those of us living in France. I will finish the book before watching Mr. Ewan McGregor in the lead role. The story follows the life of a Russian … More What I’m Reading Now
I’m always inspired by articulate, informed, and enlightening writing, especially when we’re talking Old Money and its values. Lady Colin Campbell, aka Georgia Arianna, is an author, television personality, and socialite, is probably as qualified as anyone to comment on the subject, and the excerpt below testifies to that. Serena, one of our loyal and … More Lady Colin Campbell Talks Old Money
It is not uncommon to read about the fading influence or outright disappearance of the White Anglo Saxon Protestant (WASP) in public life. The acronym is now archaic (WASP values, habits, and lifestyle are less often referred to in terms of ethnicity and religious denomination and more often referred to now in terms of ‘preppy’ … More The Death of the WASP
I am busy watching a Netflix documentary on Liliane Bettencourt, the heiress to the L’Oréal fortune and someone who is described as the richest woman in the world. Early on in the first episode they state that Madame Bettencourt is worth thirty billion Euros. Quite obviously, a very considerable sum. They also mention, and simulate … More From David, Our Foreign Correspondent
The media has been abuzz in recent months breathlessly detailing the impact that private jets and super yachts have on the environment. Here’s an ARTICLE from The Guardian. While I don’t disagree with the data and the argument that ‘the Rich’ dump more than their unfair share of carbon emissions into the atmosphere and consequently … More A Very Personal Solution to the Climate Crisis